Adrian and Julian

I did and still do have stories with men named Adrian and Julian : 2 names I've always adored ever since I could remember (maybe since those good, old days back in highschool when I wrote erotic stories in class to cater the whole class' needs of sexual fantasy, that I had to constantly find suitable names for my corny, sex-starving characters)

But never have I thought of crossing paths with the actual persons bearing the much-adored names. Adrian was my first love back in junior high school who is now married to a C-grade actrees in the form of a typical woman often seen at high-end shopping malls in Jakarta - slim, long hair, stupid looking and wears too much make up - with one daughter. While Julian is ... trying to change my mind that being a lesbian isn't that great.