Seduction Is Not Poison

The art of seduction is not about pleasing men. On the other hand, it's a matter of pleasing yourself. Why? Because it takes confidence to seduce men. And confidence can only be gained if somebody feels really good about themselves.

Believe me. You'll feel really really good when you're seducing men! So good that soon you'll forget a boyfriend having just ditched you for somebody else not even in your league, or said he wasn't ready to be with you (meaning: didn't want to be with you), or abused you verbally (and physically) to cover up his own lack of certain things, or made you feel not good enough for him just because you were born in different race group or ethnic group, caste group, or religious group from him.

And why seduction is good for post-breakup women? Because it will help them regain their confidence back, to feel good about themselves again.

So ladies, drink that medicine! Forget your crushed self-esteem, go out there and seduce men! The good news is, you don't have to wear those 10-cm stilettos, or bare-shouldered-low-necked dress to be sexy, or speak irresistably sensual British accent ala Liz Hurley to be able to seduce. You can even wear those tennis shoes and still feel sexy if you set your mind that you really are. It's all in the head! Just keep in mind that you're extremely precious that you can get any men you want.

The key is eye contact. Look at them right into their core soul, find out what they want to hear and act accordingly. And remember, confidence! Forget that asshole man you were with who tried to get you down so many times before. Whatever you do - when you talk, drink, or simply chew peanuts, at all time maintain your eye contact! Oh and one more thing, a nice, sincere smile can always take you anywhere!

I know it doesn't look that easy. But once you give it a try, even if you fail, you'll still feel good because you have walked out of your boundaries! What most important is you did it. If that man doesn't find you attractive enough for him, so what? He's the one who's complete idiot for passing you on!