Whore Obsession
I just read this on some stranger's blog - a Dutch who happens to live in Singapore:
"A regular, educated western guy who will never date a girl who works as a cashier in a supermarket gets heart broken over a little whore who is not capable of a decent conversation and drains him of as much cash as possible in the process."
It forced a bitter smile on my face.
Another Dutch in another space and time had the same experience towards a Brazillian whore having 3 children from 3 different men. They met in Brazil (she drove a car like a maniac as well as prayed a devotion to Virgin Mary till she cried), so he said.
One day he accidentally told a stupid, naive Indonesian girl that came along after her: "... but wherever she goes, my heart is always with her." And when this stupid Indonesian girl asked why didn't he be with her, where he left his heart with, he only said: "It's complicated."
Yes of course it's so complicated, for the complication was vividly spelled 3 baggage in the form of little children (and probably still counting) from 3 different men (and also probably still counting).
Don't get me wrong. I do respect whores, for they just do a job like the rest of us. It was just a bit hard to swallow how someone preferred only good sex over good sex, endless good conversation under the stars on some paradise island, and an offer of a shattered heart that had been half-glued.
What's with the Dutch's whore obsession? And what's with the stupid Indonesian girl still hoping the Dutch guy would even let her sit close beside him on a bench in a starry night post that but-wherever-she-goes-my-heart-is-always-with-her crap? Come on, she couldn't even compete with the tightness of the arse owned by the Brazillian whore from doing too much samba!
posted by Indiaphile @ 8:35 AM
9 Comments:
wow, hey it's their loss. anyways who would like someone who would prefer a whore over a sweet person.
relationships are so complicated. so much baggage!!
maybe it has nothing to do with sex at all...but, hey, what do i know...
I agree with Eko (hi, Eko!); it is not about sex. You can always go out and get one to "physically" satisfy you.., of course with the help of your thick wallet!
In my opinion, most educated woman these days are tends to forget about the "nature of a woman" them selves.
Education->Self Confidence->Ego->Selfish->mantra: "man and woman are equal".
There was where the problem lies...
It is not to my surprises to see many of western-men in Indonesia are dating "indonesian-house maid-look" woman with poor educational background.
Probably, those western-men are simply looking for "a wife"! Not someone to talk about social, politics, technology, human-right, history, etc.
Lorena,
A sweet person with the "philosophy" of a whore should be a good-enough bonus..! ;)
-LBXV-
Yes I'm aware of that. There's always more than just sex if someone is capable of pronouncing: '... but wherever she goes, my heart is always with her." (That stupid Indonesian girl still condemns the day she heard that line till this very day)
But then again men are hyprocrites. They say they left their hearts with someone they don't have the guts to be with. Or they say they want their women to be educated, but each time their big egos are simply crushed whenever the women don't just say 'yes' or nod along during conversations.
And I do sincerely hope there won't come a day when anyone of you are given the line: '... but wherever she goes, my heart is always with her" while you are holding your hearts in your hands and are about ready to hand them.
... but wherever she goes, my heart is always with her. Oh, fucketti fuck!
men are hypocrites..how can one argue with that? :)
yes, i kind of been asking myself, if his heart is with her, why is the rest of his anatomy somewhere else?
but then i realize that this exact circumstance has led to the birth of tens of thousands of novels, millions of poetries and songs, and countless films and soap operas.
romeo got exiled to mantua. why didn't he be with juliet in verona? because if he did the chief of police would shoot him on the spot. yet, his heart was always be with juliet. you can't say that romeo didn't have the gut.
he was just bidding his time.
separation happens. that's how the term 'broken-hearted' was invented in the first place. men do that. and to a certain extent, uhm..women too.
but one must move on. it's either that or shaving one's head and become a monk.
but about the ego thing, that's very true.
Indeed.., "most" men are hypocrites, self centered, unbelievably egoistic, stubborn, stupid liar, etcetera..
That is why I never think of marrying any of them... ;)
People are all the same, they will never feel completely satisfy with anything. So, I guess, one should lower their expectation.
We will never have someone in our life that can be a whore in bed, a friend in need, a priest to confess our sin, a maid to serves our daily routine needs, or anything, in one single person.
Men definitely can't be one, but woman has the capability and potential to be one!
Yes, only if they want to.
-LBXV-
LBXV, who art thou? You sound like somebody I know.
Chika,
Maybe you should write something about "woman and curiousity"... hehehehe.. peace! ;)
I'm just simply a big fans of your writing. I admire your talent, and enjoy reading your works.
My real identity may not do any good to you or your talent...
Keep on writing, and I'll keep reading...
-LBXV- (if only you have time to really "works" on this...) ;)
Ah come on, LBXV. Have mercy on this heartbroken soul!
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